Before writing this blog, let me introduce on it. Today’s blog is something different concept, different style, different ideas and different plot than on which I use to post. It’s written for some of close friends. For them it’s really important to know the real fact for girls which we experienced little-more in our past, but we have never dared to express in public. Girls, I am apologized if my contains hurt you. Because currently it’s important for me to save my close friends than to grow my friend list… 😛
Another declaration- this post contains some true stories. I am damn sure; my friends will kill me after reading it. But now I don’t care those red eyes even if I do. Because they have a very big soft heart under their red eyes.
I hope, you also believe as guys are really innocent. They can’t stop loving if anybody shows a drop of love feelings. And their lives start with compromise and end with compromise. During childhood, he sacrifices his chocolate, dulls, balloons for his sister. Later he scarifies his teenage for his lover.
I am not going to explain till end of a guy’s life, but I can walk till just middle age or just before that. Because I believe, you know the last half of life very well (so I am not concentrating those part here). What I feel, real love starts after middle of the age in most of the cases which they never tell in their mouth but their expression shows everything. But before middle of the age, couples use to say more on their love than they really do. What the hell..!!! But it’s a fact??
Guys are like a flower, really innocent, which helps gals to play with guys feelings and emotions. Otherwise she might have thought twice before telling same dialogs to more than one guys as- “u r my only friend. without u, how cum I can live. keep talking, I wanna listen… (but fortunately they use to talk much than the guys do) etc etc”. It forces to break up the relation when one of the guys came to know. But conclusion is something different. The innocent guy is forced here to learn, “how to flirt”. But society complain as “the guy became naughty”.
Many times a guy sacrifices his friendship and keep roaming around with his lover even if his inner part of the heart looks for a break to spend with his friends (it could be chatting, smoking or drinking together). But during this period, she uses to do lots of emotional drama with him ignoring the real truth, and he has to return room with a frustrated mood, which none of his friends likes. Here to live with both friends and lover, that innocent guy is forced to learn, “how to do emotional drama with girls”. But society argue as “he changed to bad boy”.
Just two days back, I surprised when one of my friend drank 10 glasses of water in my birthday party instead of his as usual eating, for just a sake of seeing a waiter again and again. Because we guys starts loving without thinking much on her. Have you ever wanted to know, what a girl use to think at the same moment??? Here guys learn, “how to control the own emotion”. But girl ignores him saying as “he has no emotion”.
Sometimes I feel like hell when a girl starts loving a guy. Because when he proposes, reply comes as she wants to be a good friend. Because he isn’t that much good/smart enough to be her husband. What a stupid!!! Similar things are seen within same gender in girls case. You believe or not, but it’s a fact.
Why love is not reciprocate always??? When one loves a girl, why not he is not getting same response from other-side. Misunderstanding will be there always. But we can’t walk with the same always. Right???